It is also not bad to know the situation and to identify the basics that are going on in your relationship with you and your partner. However, there are times when other perpetrators, neighbors, relatives, parents or friends can become 'poison' of your relationships, especially when you rely on giving support, ideas or directions in your lifetime. This article describes the basic factors you can do to minimize the potential for friends, relatives, relatives, or parents to become "poisonous" of your love.It is not wrong for close friends or relatives to be able to cooperate with you in your affections such as during the festive season or event.
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1. Control of information to others:
While describing your relationships with other people, it gives you the opportunity to comment, and even to assume that they have the right to tell you what to do with your partner. So take some time to meditate and to investigate your relationship issues before you start looking for advice, advice to other people. It's best to read books, and different articles, especially about their behavior and relationships, to think well about how they relate to and how to deal with them in your relationships.
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2. Unique factors:
Note that your partner's behavior may be unique, and the circumstances of the event that make you consulting or commenting to others may be unique, so the advice or feedback you receive may not directly help you in your solution. When you realize this, you will work hard to build personal capacity to analyze the problem you face in relationships and seek solutions before you rely on other people.
3. The decision is you:
It is true that there are times when it is important to get advice from other people, and more people with accurate understanding and trust, make sure that you realize that you are the one responsible for the decision-making process you will take.
4. Be patient:
Do not take immediate action in relationships, especially the decision to decide to share the information about your relationship with others. When you make a decision to interact with others quickly avoiding a chance to investigate the matter in particular about the potential consequences of telling others, or if it is a problem, then consider the right paths that you could use to find the solution to the problem.
5. Open communication methods among you:
Perhaps the source of your interaction about your relationships with other people is that you have missed the opportunity to communicate fluently with your spouse. Look for adequate space, create an environment to talk about before you want to get involved with other people.
6. Be alone:
Even if you do not want to tell people about things that are relevant to your life, the environment you live can contribute to people wanting to interfere with your relationships-by giving directions, advice or ideas about living with you and your partner. When you have to make sure you do not live close to your parents, a close relative or friend. Or you do not work with your spouse one place, for that will be the easiest way people see you live. When you have to be close to other people, make sure you agree with your partner how best to communicate between people, so that you do not give them a chance to read it "and then begin to give them" instructions "of what they see you should live on.
7. Go to 'classroom':
Remember relationships need a lot of understanding of how to communicate fluently, understand your spouse's feelings, identify conflict resolution strategies, and more to make long-term planning for your relationship. Practice reading articles and books that enhance the basic knowledge of the things we have described above. An example of articles you can read is as follows:
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